Couple Making Love

Has been my partner and I live together for almost four years. Used to be more creative in bed and have sex three or four times a week, so that the reduced to once every two months. Says he is not sex-driven as I am. It also does not want to make love in the daytime, and the more I try, and he drives me away, which led to the deterioration of my self-confidence. I got engaged last summer, and the idea of ​​sex only six times per year or less for the rest of my life terrifies me! How can I get more attention?
Many people feel undue pressure to achieve “normal” frequency of sex (there is no such thing). There are many reasons behind the sexual desire of the man may be diminished. And some are temporary, and perhaps because of the work, stress or fatigue. Sometimes there are underlying problems such as depression, or physical ailments – and even the side effects of certain medications.
But sex is important for you and you need to clearly address this issue before marriage. It was nice, and conversation playful, and not to blame – with him (for example, “I adore you and I really enjoy making love, but I’m wondering what you think about trying to have fun in bed often?”) May need to ask if you should request help you to enhance communication stunts.
But the love-making usually requires planning to ensure that it is already happening in your life is busy. Forget the “spontaneous” – after all, if you want to go on a trip you’re planning the site, housing, and what you wear – so why not prepare for lovemaking?